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October 18, 2013
Gyaru Comm - A Place For Catty Elitist Bitches
Have you ever wondered why the gyaru comm has been depleting in it's amount of members as of late? I'll tell you why. Everyone nowadays is always bitching about something. Always...no seriously, it's true. Don't believe me? Go on someone's Facebook who's well involved into the gyaru community, look at their statuses, and try and find a status where they are complaining about issues related to the gyaru community. That was easy wasn't it? It's ironic because those bitching the most in the gal comm are the reason why it's turning to shit. They're the ones who people disregard when it comes to forming genuine friendships and are also the ones that make people too disgusted by their behavior to consider joining. They have poisoned the meaning of gal in my eyes and it's why I never want to go back.
Remember how back in high school (I say this as if I'm a grandma lol) there were cliques? Hell, even in college there are still clicks but it's way less as people mature and become more open minded to different ideas and other groups of individuals. But in the gal comm, it's exactly like a fucking high school. I thought distancing myself from the FB groups would suffice for me to not see this childish irrational behavior but it's still all over my fucking news feed. It's a damn sickness that won't go away. These girls are the same people who are always saying something about somebody when they look mediocre themselves. I don't get it. How can you be so high and mighty when you look so basic? Take a hard look at these people. You cannot tell me they look jack shit like a gyaru model. Not even close! If they're lucky they can barely get their eye make up on point at the very least but usually that's their highest accomplishment shown in their "gyaru expertise". You call yourselves gal but you have so much work to do on your entire appearance so what does that make you to be disrespecting others like this? Hypocritical that's what.
I need to vent because I saw someone make a post about what is generally people attempting to help others by making tutorials and how it is crazy for them to do so because blah blah blah they're not truly gal and blah blah blah. My response: Shut. The. Actual. Fuck. Up. All they do is find people who "suck", feed on it by insulting them as much as possible with their ugly like-minded friends, and continue the cycle. It's distasteful and I can't understand how people can be associated with girls like them. You take bits of pieces of who your friends are so why be affiliated with these negative minded girls who have nothing better to do than rip others apart for enjoyment? Is it not borderline cyberbullying? Yes, help others by giving critiques that aren't potentially offensive but don't be a fucking asshole just for your own sick entertainment. It's why I left the community but when I still see how it hasn't changed, if anything has gotten worse, I get upset for those who have contacted me about this being an issue for them. It's extremely discouraging to always be around such negativity in a community that is meant to uplift and encourage confidence. It's not about that anymore. No, it's about who can call someone out for their shitty make up the quickest without giving real constructive crit while looking busted themselves. How is that a community worth spending your time in? How and why on earth would you even want to?
I personally am also upset because there are so many people who are for the first time taking a stab at gyaru and posting it online. They have that choice to do that yet we have people who rip them apart for simply trying a new style. Ffs let them be! What is the issue with venturing out to something new and showing their followers what they came up with? And creating a look that isn't entirely gyaru but heavily influenced by it does not make these people bad. They're experimenting with their creativity and are also answering the requests of their fans. Speaking of which, if these idiots have a fraction of the supporters these gurus have, they would know what it's like to constantly be pressured to make a gyaru make up tutorial all the time but of course they have nothing to bring to the table so of course they have little to zero REAL followers. Not talking about fake ass ghost followers you can buy for your Instagram or YouTube channel, no. I mean ORGANIC REAL NON-GENERATED THROUGH MONEY followers. Like some of you guys who I worked hard to gain, that sort of thing. There's nothing wrong with experimentation. If you're going to tell me that you have never considered experimenting with your gyaru look then your style must be an extreme cookie-cutter look that it'll bore the death out of anyone who sees you. You'll never make others see you as a role model for that reason and for your craptastic attitude towards others so keep up the bitchy attitude. You're only allowing yourself to stay at the level you have and will always remain in.
Overall, what I am saying is people in the gal comm need to stop taking everything so seriously. This is just fashion and if you want to argue that it's a lifestyle too, then okay fine great. But even so, you can't dictate how others perceive and want to utilize that lifestyle...it's really unfair and I'm really close to just deleting every single one of those who keep complaining about this all the time. I've had enough! Come at me bruh.
Side note: There are definitely some gals who do not fit this description that I know but funny enough, most of them just run blogs and stay away from FB groups and those doing all the bitching. Gee, I wonder why? Could there be a correlation to that? Hmm, I wonder....*sarcasm* Yes of course there is a reason for that. They're distancing themselves away from the negativity.